I overheard a conversation in the elevator the other day (it is hard not to in an elevator and the woman was not trying to be quiet by any means), a woman was telling her coworker she was finally able to keep her dog off the couch by using a shock collar. I grimaced instinctively, thinking this seemed a bit extreme just to keep a dog off the couch. She noticed my look and defended her actions by saying “It’s not like electrocution, just a little reminder zap.” I was only able to give her a I hear what you are saying, but not really buying it look before they exited the elevator. In hindsight, I should have been quicker to pull out a card for the local dog training club and let her know we have alternative methods. While my reaction was involuntary, did I really have a right to make a face? She was not speaking to me, I did not have the full story and she was using a training method easily found at PetSmart. I use training methods that Ian Dunbar and Victoria Stillwell supporters would not approve of, would I want someone pointing that out to me?
I know there are going to be people who feel it is responsible to speak up on behalf of the animal at all times, while others will find a gray area of appropriateness. Let’s all agree on one thing though, should you decide to voice your opinion to someone who has not asked for it, be respectful and informative, not accusatory. I believe people will be more receptive to listening or at least consider listening if you do not instantly put them on the defensive.